My puppy Bronte (named after Charlotte, not Emily) seeking refuge in her blanket.
Help!
Sorry. Firstly, Happy New Year to one and all. I really do have ONE major resolution and that’s to devote more time to my fiction. Would love it if you would read this post and offer suggestions, tips etc. I’m knee-deep in edits on my book right now but I’m getting overwhelmed by the following:
It seems there’s SO many edits required on my novel. The more I delve in the more I realise I need to flesh things out. If I think about them all I get overwhelmed. I know the answer is to go through each chapter little by little and not get caught up in the big picture but sometimes my brain forgets that and I become frozen, paralyzed and/or otherwise inert.
I’m SO thrilled to now be a member of RWA. I no longer feel alone. I LOVE this org. BUT, there’s so many emails from the group, not to mention the chapter events (many of which I want to sign up for), the SPEW crew (who help you set goals on your writing each week), that that also overwhelms me, as does the RWA website, newsletter etc. I WANT to respond to these great emails and read all the wonderful blog posts and websites my great chapter writers send us to in these emails, but again, I get overwhelmed. Where do I find the time? This in turn leads to…
My subscription to writing mags (okay only one), which I LOVE and is like a guilty pleasure when I find time to peruse it. Then I want to take notes and put little pink stickies on things and create folders – which again distracts from the actual editing work of my novel… Not to mention all the great novels I want to read on my Kindle. AAARGGH!!
Keep in mind I have FULL TIME job. I’m delighted I do. I LOVE my job as an editor and journalist, and I’m lucky I get to work from home – but I don’t work 9-5. I work CRAZY hours – sometimes late into the night or early in the morning. Just this morning (yes, it’s Sunday) I had to write about a big car chase from last night. So while I do have flexibility – I CAN and do take my dog to the park every day – I also have to find time to balance everything.
So here’s my BIG QUESTION:
If you are a fiction writer who ALSO happens to have a full time job (whether that’s as a nuclear physicist or as a full time parent), I’d love to hear your suggestions/thoughts/plans/ideas. How do you juggle your life? How do you find time to work on your novels, do your jobs, split the atom, organise the carpool, keep your sanity, read all the important supportive stuff you need/want to read, be supportive to other writers in your groups or blogs and still eat decent meals, take important exercise AND have a life?
How do you NOT just throw up your hands and crawl under the covers?
Thank you in advance (from under the covers).
Kelly – I no longer have a full time job, but I did when i began my writer’s journey, and I published three to four books before I decided to go full time into writing, so I feel I can offer some thoughts on this overwhelmed feeling. Somehow I managed. I got earlier, stayed up later, spent breaktime at work reading writing magazines etc. I liken it to my going to Nursing School a gazillion years ago – I didn’t let myself look at the big picture because it felt too overwhelming. I only looked at what was right before me. Study for this test, learn this procedure, do this module. In your case, kelly, you may have to assing yourself small steps on your writing path and only look at your progress from week to week. Weeks add up and before you know it, you’ve got a year’s worth of fictionwriting and learning accomplished. Does this make sense?
Good luck to you. Love the phot of puppy in bed.
Thanks Lynne. You’re right (write???). Week to week is a good idea. I’m amazed I actually wrote the novel but it’s the editing that’s doing my head in! I think I need to carve out specific space/time to write and read fiction – and NOT feel guilty about it!
Hi Kelly;
I feel your pain! I actually retired in February of last year, but I sure don’t feel like I’m retired. In fact, I’m busier than when I was working full time.
I’m STILL trying to figure out a schedule that allows me to get the most important things done on a daily basis.
I’m currently picking my four top priorities and committing to get those accomplished during the day. Anything else I get done is gravy.
Just do the best that you can and try to have a real life as well.
Congrats on finishing the novel! You are so right about all the time sucking activities. I honestly don’t know how anyone writes and holds down a full-time job, especially one with crazy hours. My only suggestion is to prioritize. The magazines will keep, so I’d put those last. You can always keep one in the car, the desk, where ever so you can pull it out when you have one of those unexpected free moments.
As for the editing. Have you tried copying and pasting a small section you want to focus on into a new doc. That way you aren’t as tempted to wander, or keep looking at the page count and panic. You can always paste it back in when you’ve got it right. You can also print these out and carry them around – like the magazine suggestion.
I’d put walking the dog at the top of the priority list! That’s a cutie in the picture!
Best of luck with the juggling act!
I like the copy and paste idea. Good thinking. My novel is currently in Scrivener – which I adore but it does make me wander and look at other chapters. Love this idea! PS. Changed the photo – it was a generic dog – not mine -the one above is now indeed mine!